Having worked in a tripartite model with relationship surrogates for the past 2 decades, I act as a consultant on cases involving a relationship surrogate. My role typically involves providing guidance, support, and expertise to both the surrogate and the primary therapist or clinician working directly with the client(s). I may may offer insights into relational dynamics, attachment patterns, communication strategies, and emotional regulation techniques relevant to the surrogate-client relationship. I assist in setting therapeutic goals, establishing boundaries, and ensuring ethical considerations are upheld throughout the surrogate's involvement.

Additionally, I may help facilitate collaboration and communication between the surrogate and the primary therapist, ensuring that interventions align with the client's treatment plan and therapeutic objectives. Overall, my role as a consultant aims to optimize the effectiveness and ethical integrity of the therapeutic process involving a relationship surrogate.