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The Crucial Link Between Clinician Skill and Self-Care

As you continue your journey in this field, remember that your well-being is not just a personal matter; it is a professional responsibility. By taking care of yourself, you ensure that you can continue to care for others, effectively and compassionately, for years to come.

As a form of self care, finding your way to a consultation group or working with an individual consultant. I offer individual and group consultation You can find out more here.

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Understanding Sacrificial Helping Syndrome: A Perspective for Early Career Psychologists

Having a solid container of clinical consultation can reduce the possibility of SHS. I offer individual and group consultation You can find out more here.

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A Revolutionary Act of Self-Care in Challenging Times

I’ve also seen that minding your own business can help your interpersonal relationships. Respecting others’ autonomy instead of telling them what to do, fosters mutual respect and trust. When you refrain from unnecessary interference, you show that you trust others to handle their own lives, which can strengthen bonds and improve communication. Doing so encourages a more supportive and less judgmental atmosphere and allows relationships to thrive in a healthier, more balanced manner.

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How Deepfakes Affect Relationships

Consent is the crucial element in this discussion. None of these women and girls (because deepfake pornography is also being created about young girls) said “yes” to having their faces splashed across the internet engaging in sexual acts. In an era where privacy is increasingly compromised, the ability to obtain someone's image or voice without their knowledge and then manipulate it for malicious purposes poses a serious threat. These women, because it’s almost exclusively women, are victimized by the unauthorized use of their likeness, leading to emotional distress and strain on their relationships.

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A Sex Therapist Reveals How Well Sex Education Portrays Sex Therapy

We all know TV and movies don’t always get it right in terms of their portrayals so how does Sex Education stack up in regards to sex therapy? Is it more fiction than fact? Surprisingly, no. Is it unrealistic that Otis would know so much about sex therapy without going through proper training and certification? Absolutely. As a Bay Area sex therapist and sexologist, I had a rigorous training process – more than 300 hours of additional training and an additional 50 extra hours of supervision on top of my licensure. The things I learned cannot be gleaned by osmosis so in that way, Sex Education is a complete work of fiction.

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