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We are More Comfortable Talking about Women’s Pain than Pleasure
We are More Comfortable Talking about Women’s Pain than Pleasure

When pleasure takes center stage, it becomes a powerful catalyst for self-identified women to reclaim their agency and voice. Prioritizing one's desires not only applies to intimate relationships but extends into the broader sphere of professional life as well. Encouraging women to vocalize their needs and preferences, whether in the bedroom or the boardroom, can be initially challenging, as it challenges longstanding norms and expectations. However, this is precisely the transformation our society needs. By fostering an environment where women feel empowered to speak up and assert themselves, we contribute to a more equitable world where their voices are valued and respected in all aspects of life.

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Denise Renyewomen's sexuality, women's rights, women's health, women and psychology, badass women, women's titles, masturbation, pleasure, anal pleasure, sexual pleasure, couples, couples therapy, marin county sex therapist
Birthing: A Multifaceted Experience
Birthing: A Multifaceted Experience

An orgasm is possible during childbirth because the baby is moving through the same parts of the body involved in sexual pleasure. As we know, the clitoris is more than the small nub most people think it is, meaning as the baby passes through the vagina it may stimulate the clitoris along the way. An orgasmic birth is also a possibility because of hormones: Oxytocin, the feel-good, bonding hormone, is released during childbirth, lactation, and orgasm.

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Denise RenyeSex, sexual healing, sexual integrity, orga, fema, pleasure, birth, birthing, root chakra, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, marin county sex therapist
Want more Sexual Pleasure?
Want more Sexual Pleasure?

Emotional safety plays a crucial role in sexual pleasure. When we feel emotionally safe with our partner, we are more likely to be open, vulnerable, and willing to explore our desires and fantasies. When we trust our partner, we can let go of any inhibitions and fully immerse ourselves in the moment, leading to a more intense and fulfilling sexual experience.

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Gender Openness, Sex Therapy, Sexuality, SexologyDenise Renyepleasure, sexual healing, sexual pleasure, emotional safety, relationship creativity, relationship, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, marin county CA, marin county
Let’s Normalize Self-Care for People with Prostates
Let’s Normalize Self-Care for People with Prostates

I also want to acknowledge that because the prostate is accessible via the anus, and prostate milking can be practiced as a form of sexual pleasure, some folx may feel resistant to using this technique. Because many people continue to subscribe and use heteronormative languaging, they may feel scared and even consider this as “doing something gay.” And at the same time, a body part doesn’t have a sexual orientation. Body parts are neutral. They are attached to people and people are the ones that have sexual orientations.

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Denise Renyeprostate, mens health, mental health, ptsd, men's health, masculine, prostate massage, prostate gland, pleasure, sexual pleasure, sex positive, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, marin county CA, marin county
What’s Your Relationship with Sex?
What’s Your Relationship with Sex?

Because everyone is so different from one another, sex can look a certain way on the outside and feel differently on the inside for each person. That is why good communication is extremely important, even if the person you’re having sex with is yourself. Doing so will help you build a better relationship with yourself and with others, if you choose to involve them in sex.

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Denise RenyeSex, sexologist, sexual assault survivor, pleasure, addiction and recovery, marin county sexologist, marin county psychologist, marin county CA, marin county